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2011 12

There is no right or wrong in love: Only true and false.

This means love is not intense, initial infatuation. Not co-dependence. Not admiration. Not ego enforcing. Not need for attention. Not loneliness.
Guess what else?
The illusion of a perfect soul mate waiting in the realm of the future is an illusion.
There?s no love that?s waiting for us at the end of hard work, pain and struggle. Hearts don?t wait. Hearts aren?t patient.
This is it.
Get over it and live here, in the now. Deal with what?s in front of your face.
Love isn?t missing someone. Love isn?t wanting all of someone to yourself. Love isn?t craving someone 24/7.
We?re pulled or attracted to certain people and not others, but that feeling of magnetic infatuation can sometimes be mistaken for love when it?s not. That pull we call ?love? can have nothing to do with the object of your affection and who she or he is. It can be driven solely by you and your bullshit.
Enduring love that lasts also cannot be based on unconscious mutual agreements in which we subconsciously play out each others issues.
I won?t push you to change if you won?t push me. If you play the role of punching bag while I act out my childhood issues throughout our relationship, I?ll do the same for you.

Depends on what you want though. Or what you?re equipped to handle at the time. There is no right or wrong.
But if you want
true,
lasting closeness,
don?t give in. Whatever that means to you.
In the meantime? some nights? it?s really just a better idea to masturbate and go to bed?
Source: http://www.straightuplove.com/what-love-isnt/
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